The Soulmate Blog
Soulmate help for single spiritual women over 35
About Me
I support single women as a Soulmate Coach. I've been happily married for over 30 years and reside in Menlo Park, California.
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Single Women: Author Reveals 10 Tips to Attract Your Good Man
I invite you to meet me at the Island Java Co., on Saturday, April 19,08. It's an intimate and inviting destination located at 800 So. B Street, Suite 500 in San Mateo, California. At 10:00 a.m., I'll do some highlights from my just published book Manifesting Your Soulmate: The Skillset for Spiritual Women Over 35 and you can ask some questions about attracting and keeping your Good Man. Just mark your calendar now, so you can remember to be there. There's ample street parking and a garage behind the coffee shop.
Seating is limited at the Island Java Co., so come early for a good seat. Hot beverages and tasty treats are available during the event.
Of course, I'll be happy to autograph your copy of Manifesting Your Soulmate after the talk. I'll bring a few copies in case you haven't had a chance to order yours from Amazon.com or Barnes&Noble.com.
Before publishing Manifesting Your Soulmate, I taught hundreds of women to find their Good Man in seminars and consultations. For the past five years, I've combined a life coaching service with an intuitive practice in Menlo Park, California called Venus de Menlo Consulting, Inc. Not surprising for a woman who has based the proven step by step attraction system on her own successful marriage and on the research of psychologists and metaphysicians.
Here are 10 tips to help a woman attract a good man.
1. Find out what she believes about men in general. When she thinks that all men are liars, she’s holding a belief that limits her to attract that kind of guy.
2. Learn to shift a limiting belief to one that supports her vision about relationship. Otherwise she dooms herself to repeat bad experiences.
3. Find out what she believes about herself in relationships. If she thinks that she is unlucky in love, she increases her opportunities to have rotten luck with any new man.
4. Pay attention to her list about the qualities a man must have. Revise the list if it has too many feminine qualities.
5. Find out what she believes about relationships. If a woman has had several unfortunate relationships, it’s time to think about a new attitude that would create more hope.
6. After shifting her limiting beliefs on the key areas of men, herself, and relationships, come up with an action plan to attract Mr. Fantastic.
7.When she’s over 35, she can use the advantage of the internet to meet a lot of men fast. It’s easier to discern a good man when she has a plethora to choose from.
8. Avoid the major turn off to men-- appearing desperate. Know when to call and when not to call him.
9. Avoid the potholes of wrong choices. Mature women know when a certain type of man is bad for them. Unfortunately, they may choose to ignore the signals because of various negative reasons.
10. Do something different to meet an attractive man.
When women follow these ten tips, they use the law of attraction with intent. Remember the law of attraction states that whatever a person focuses their attention upon comes to pass.
Information on a personal consultation with me is available at patriciafuqua.com/venus.
Monday, January 7, 2008
Soulmate Search: Attracting Men Tip 1
From the desk of Patricia Fuqua, Soulmate Coach
Enjoying your dinner solo or looking across a table
into the eyes of a wonderful man…
Which would you prefer?
One tip for attracting great guys is to use strategies that flow
from your vision of the kind of experience you prefer to have
with a life partner. When you think and do the things that
help you meet great guys, well, that’s called using the law of
attraction wisely.
Too many woman spend too much time and energy complaining about
the shortcomings of men in general and shortchange themselves in
particular when it comes to using the law of attraction wisely.
When your vision about your preferred relationship is foggy, then it’s
hard to be clear on the kind of guy who can provide you what you
need to get what you want. A saavy woman focuses on what she
prefers to experience in relationship. What you think about a lot,
you bring into existence.
Take some time to do a little experiment. Describe in a journal
or notebook what kind of experiences would let you know that
you are in the company of a great guy. Since your descriptions
are between you and your notebook, let your imagination soar.
Nobody else has to know but you and the Universe. In essence,
you’ll be writing up your order for the man to fulfill your plan of
being in a great relationship.
This tip comes from my upcoming book titled
Manifesting Your Soulmate: The Skillset for Spiritual Women Over 35.
It’s scheduled to be launched February 08.
For more insights, go to http://www.TheSoulmateQuiz.com
Enjoying your dinner solo or looking across a table
into the eyes of a wonderful man…
Which would you prefer?
One tip for attracting great guys is to use strategies that flow
from your vision of the kind of experience you prefer to have
with a life partner. When you think and do the things that
help you meet great guys, well, that’s called using the law of
attraction wisely.
Too many woman spend too much time and energy complaining about
the shortcomings of men in general and shortchange themselves in
particular when it comes to using the law of attraction wisely.
When your vision about your preferred relationship is foggy, then it’s
hard to be clear on the kind of guy who can provide you what you
need to get what you want. A saavy woman focuses on what she
prefers to experience in relationship. What you think about a lot,
you bring into existence.
Take some time to do a little experiment. Describe in a journal
or notebook what kind of experiences would let you know that
you are in the company of a great guy. Since your descriptions
are between you and your notebook, let your imagination soar.
Nobody else has to know but you and the Universe. In essence,
you’ll be writing up your order for the man to fulfill your plan of
being in a great relationship.
This tip comes from my upcoming book titled
Manifesting Your Soulmate: The Skillset for Spiritual Women Over 35.
It’s scheduled to be launched February 08.
For more insights, go to http://www.TheSoulmateQuiz.com
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Who Else Wants a Soulmate?
From the desk of Patricia Fuqua, Soulmate Coach
Did this year go fast or what?
I'm burning two red and one green candle
for more love and gentle, healthy growth in the new year.
I've put them on my mantle in
white candle holders that spell out JOY.
Their flames add such beauty to the living room
in the evenings.
Love. Growth. Self-Improvement.The Law of Affirmation.
Relationship. Happiness. And many more topics
I'll discuss on these pages.
Welcome to my world.
I'm here to help you manifest your soulmate.
Are you ready to begin?
Let me introduce myself. Since 2002, I've been helping
women over 35 who are disappointed with their dates to
attract their soulmate. I provide relationship tips on my tv show.
http://www.communitymediacenter.net/ You can hear the webcast
on the channel 30 webcast for The Patricia Fuqua Show.
I have a spiritual based practice. I study metaphysics, other
relationship experts, and psychologists. My information is
informed by the practical and inspired by the Spirit.
One of my articles is carried by http://www.ezinearticles.com/
My calling is to help you with tools and services to use
consciously the manifesting principles that work for each of us.
The challenge for most of my single women students is that
they use the principles unconsciously. Here's an example:
When women complain bitterly about men or say nasty things about them...
well it's no wonder that they doom themselves to meet more and more men
to complain bitterly about.
The law of attraction works like the law of gravity.
You are under its influence
whether you aware of it or not.
It brings you more of what you think, talk and concentrate upon.
Hmmm. Light bulbs should start to pop for you.
What if you cleared your mind and concentrated
on what kind of relationship you prefer with a man?
That's easier said than done? After all it's been a long time
since you thought about what you prefer instead of what you didn't want.
I'm here to suggest tips and tools to help you correct your course
and move toward a more satisfying relationship goal. In fact,
when you check out the sites listed above, you'll get started on the
road to a great relationship in 2008.
Did this year go fast or what?
I'm burning two red and one green candle
for more love and gentle, healthy growth in the new year.
I've put them on my mantle in
white candle holders that spell out JOY.
Their flames add such beauty to the living room
in the evenings.
Love. Growth. Self-Improvement.The Law of Affirmation.
Relationship. Happiness. And many more topics
I'll discuss on these pages.
Welcome to my world.
I'm here to help you manifest your soulmate.
Are you ready to begin?
Let me introduce myself. Since 2002, I've been helping
women over 35 who are disappointed with their dates to
attract their soulmate. I provide relationship tips on my tv show.
http://www.communitymediacenter.net/ You can hear the webcast
on the channel 30 webcast for The Patricia Fuqua Show.
I have a spiritual based practice. I study metaphysics, other
relationship experts, and psychologists. My information is
informed by the practical and inspired by the Spirit.
One of my articles is carried by http://www.ezinearticles.com/
My calling is to help you with tools and services to use
consciously the manifesting principles that work for each of us.
The challenge for most of my single women students is that
they use the principles unconsciously. Here's an example:
When women complain bitterly about men or say nasty things about them...
well it's no wonder that they doom themselves to meet more and more men
to complain bitterly about.
The law of attraction works like the law of gravity.
You are under its influence
whether you aware of it or not.
It brings you more of what you think, talk and concentrate upon.
Hmmm. Light bulbs should start to pop for you.
What if you cleared your mind and concentrated
on what kind of relationship you prefer with a man?
That's easier said than done? After all it's been a long time
since you thought about what you prefer instead of what you didn't want.
I'm here to suggest tips and tools to help you correct your course
and move toward a more satisfying relationship goal. In fact,
when you check out the sites listed above, you'll get started on the
road to a great relationship in 2008.


